Reading the plant: over versus under
Much of watering is diagnosis rather than pouring. The hardest call, the one from Lesson 1, comes first: a wilting plant is not necessarily a thirsty one.
When a plant droops, check the substrate before you reach for the can. Wilting often means a plant needs water, but sometimes it's a sign of overwatering (University of Illinois Extension, n.d.). If the mix is dry, the plant is probably thirsty: water it thoroughly, and if it perks up, the root zone has enough water again (Criscione & Holliday-Goulart, n.d.). If the mix is wet, think again. Any injury to the roots, including root rot from too much water, cuts the plant's ability to take up water, which causes wilting, and in that case watering can make the problem worse (Shaughnessy & Pertuit, n.d.). The check takes a finger and a moment.
Beyond the wilt, the two problems have distinct signs, and they're most telling together. Overwatering commonly shows up as wilting, yellowing leaves, soft or mushy leaves and stems, leaves dropping, slow growth and a rotten smell (Criscione & Holliday-Goulart, n.d.), in mix that never seems to dry out. If you slip the plant out, roots that should be white have turned brown (Trinklein, 2017). Fungus gnats are another clue: their larvae breed in moist potting mix (University of Maryland Extension, 2026). Underwatering looks drier: wilting, dry or brittle leaves, and brown tips or edges (Criscione & Holliday-Goulart, n.d.), a pot that feels light when you lift it, and mix that has cracked and pulled away from the sides of the pot (Trinklein, 2017). Brown tips have other causes too (Lesson 6), so don't lean on them alone.
Recovery depends on which way you erred. For an overwatered plant, clear any blocked drainage holes, let the mix dry out, and if the roots are damaged, repot into fresh mix and prune off stems and leaves that are failing (Criscione & Holliday-Goulart, n.d.). A plant whose mix has dried so hard it sheds water needs a slow soak: set the pot in water for 15 to 30 minutes, longer if the mix has become water-repellent (Criscione & Holliday-Goulart, n.d.), or water it once and again half an hour later (Shaughnessy & Pertuit, n.d.). In both cases, the plant will tell you over the following days whether you read it right.

Fig. 9. Two problems, opposite causes, similar wilt. Overwatered (left): wet substrate, soft yellowing leaves, sometimes a smell. Underwatered (right): light pot, crispy edges, substrate pulled from the sides. Check the substrate before you decide.
Five watering myths
"Put gravel in the bottom for drainage." Complicated, and not in the direction many people now think. The popular rebuttal says a coarse layer waterlogs the roots, but when layers were weighed in unplanted pots, they almost always reduced or didn't change the water a pot held (Lesson 2). What's clear is simpler: a layer is no substitute for a drainage hole, and it takes up room the mix could use.
"Watering orchids with ice cubes ruins them." Tested for one kind of orchid, and the ice cubes didn't hurt the flowers or the roots. In Phalaenopsis grown in bark, three ice cubes a week in place of the same volume of room-temperature water gave the same flower life, display life and root health (Lesson 7). The researchers' caveats: keep the cubes off the leaves, which spotted in an early test, and pour off any water that collects in a decorative pot.
"Misting counts as watering." It doesn't, for most houseplants. Misting is only a temporary lift in humidity and doesn't replace regular watering. Water the substrate.
"You must use distilled water." Only for particular plants. Carnivorous plants typically need it (Criscione & Holliday-Goulart, n.d.), and fluoride-sensitive plants do better on reverse-osmosis, distilled or charcoal-treated water (Lesson 6). For most plants, tap water is fine.
"Water on a fixed schedule, every Sunday." The whole point of this module: the right interval moves with light, season, and pot. Read the plant, not the calendar.
Strengthen your understanding
Try these in your head first, then open to see.